So I've got tons to write about when it comes to my recent trip to meet E^2. Which hopefully I'll have time to do soon. But the toughest part of the trip to me was discussing the one thing we didn't exactly see eye to eye on, which is selective reduction in the case of becoming pregnant with triplets.
I have this great fear of the unknown when it comes to triplets. I know that there are stories of women having normal healthy triplet pregnancies, but most stories I've seen or read have involved some heavy duty hospital bed rest. Which absolutely terrifies me. I can't imagine being in the hospital for months and not being able to be with my babies. Which just talking about that made me cry. Erica doesn't feel comfortable with going ahead with selective reduction in the case of triplets. But she did say if there is a great risk to my health that she would without a doubt. And I feel as if her and Etan both care about my well being and that of my children so I'm sure we can come to some kind of common ground as far as this topic is concerned. E^2 is talking with their lawyer to add what I'm calling the triplet clause in the contact. I feel like everything is such a great match and I'm hoping that this won't be a deal breaker.
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